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Nov 27, 2018·1 min read

This is the best, most articulate explanation I’ve ever heard of this concept.

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Mama, writer, lover, fighter — I wear my heart on my sleeve because my pants pockets are too small. www.ajkaywriter.com

…uctive, but in several respects you don’t really have as much of a choice as you’d like to believe. We are all driven by our traumas, and our need to release the negative emotions from the memory of our traumas by replaying them to more satisfactory outcomes.

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