The thoughts that came up while reading your piece:
1.) I appreciate your vulnerability. ❤️
2.) Lies are consumptive and toxic. The truth might be painful, but it’s also restorative.
3.) You have to allow people to be responsible for their feelings and take responsibility for your own.
4.) Mate selection is important and there are countless “The One”s.
5.) Honest, ego-annihilating self-examination is the only way to grow.
6.) “Good” people can do “bad” things.