Thank you for responding, Becky. You unpacked a lot of stuff right there.

There’s no shortage of judgement from people about why I got them in the first place. I don’t disagree that it was a mistake, but it also came from a place, like you said, of trying to make things okay. I would’ve done anything to make my marriage work and my implants were part of the ‘anything’.

I just didn’t have the wisdom, self-awareness, or foresight to see all the reasons why it wasn’t the right choice.

I can’t change the past but I can change the future.

Your comment and encouragement means a lot to me. :)

Mama, writer, lover, fighter — I wear my heart on my sleeve because my pants pockets are too small. www.ajkaywriter.com

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