New Nick Apex anecdote: “But…I’ve dated many women!”

A.J. Kay: “Cool story, bro!” 😁👍

I have a little heuristic and it goes like this: The moment someone feels the need to tell others how ______ they are ( fill in the subjective characteristic: smart, funny, high value, whatever) the odds of them actually being that thing go way down.

In your case, double that info down with your somewhat predictable pseudo-masculine nom de plume, add in your avatar pic of Marcus Aurelius, and I’m pretty sure I can take that money straight to the bank.

When people are actually the thing they profess to be, other people figure it out without having to be drawn a map with flashing lights and a big, red X on it.

But that’s neither here nor there. I have no skin in the “Is Nick Apex a high value man IRL?” game. I’ll leave that task for the many women you date, myself having both withdrawn and been excluded from that group.

Now, I’m sorry to disappoint you but I can’t give you definitive insight into my future wardrobe choices just yet.

However, generally speaking, the idea behind this whole endeavor is to get okay with me — as I am — just like this — and not concern myself with assessments of my body from random men.

So, it’s safe to assume that the common thread (no pun intended, but I love that it happened) between the kinds of tops I will buy is that they are ones that I like. And you already know I like bralettes, sooooo…

Thank you for the well wishes and the engagement!

Mama, writer, lover, fighter — I wear my heart on my sleeve because my pants pockets are too small.

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