If I lend to friends and family, I always consider it a gift, even if they swear up and down they’ll pay me back.

That way, resentment doesn’t build. This contract stuff is great way to railroad a relationship.

If I don’t have it to give, I can’t loan it.

Bookkeeping between lovers (or friends, or family) is a bad idea.

Mama, writer, lover, fighter — I wear my heart on my sleeve because my pants pockets are too small. www.ajkaywriter.com

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