I hoped this would be an interesting, empathic back-and-forth, but I can’t pull a cogent assertion out of your response(s).
Here’s some advice: your position is weakened to the point of non-existence by the absolutes, adverbs, qualifiers, redirects and assumptions in your writing. Eliminate them.
As it stands, you’re debating a phantom of your own creation…and ineffectively.
IOW: People can’t hear what you’re saying because of all the noise.
Try again without the accouterments. I’ll be happy to take a look.