I do think it’s important to not just say, “You are wrong and that’s bad!”, especially in the sexual realm. Feels a too much like, “Shame! Shame!”

Judging individuals for their consensual sexual preferences is not simply pointless, it’s counterproductive and harmful (IMHO), or I wouldn’t bother to comment on the article. I’d just say, “Well, that one’s not for me”, and keep scrolling. I’m glad to see that there are at least about 10% of us who feel similarly.

Congrats on the 43 years! That’s impressive! :)

Mama, writer, lover, fighter — I wear my heart on my sleeve because my pants pockets are too small. www.ajkaywriter.com

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