I agree that if you can say this to yourself and believe it…if you can make that little child inside of yourself feel safe and securely attached…the need for “self-kindness” toward your adult self becomes moot. Your intrinsic motivators (whatever method works for you) are more effective.

Well told.

Mama, writer, lover, fighter — I wear my heart on my sleeve because my pants pockets are too small. www.ajkaywriter.com

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