Hi Benjamin. Thank you for sharing that. Truly. I love it when people offer that they are having, or have had similar experiences.
He played no small part in this whole saga for me, as I can imagine you are doing with your lover. While we ultimately have to make these life-altering choices for ourselves (as I learned the hard way), having supportive people at our side can make all the difference in figuring out how to move forward down the healing path.
Thank you for being there for her and for sharing with me. I’m sure she is as grateful to you as I am to my lover. (((HUGS)))