You’ve exposed the real sentiment behind the justifications post-menopausal women use to oppose May/December relationships.

I’m glad someone actually had the nerve to say it.

There’s the “Young adult women have no agency and are being taken advantage of!” angle. There’s the “He’s a perv/user/abuser!” angle. And there’s the “She’s just a gold-digger with daddy issues” angle.

And they’re all judgmental cloaks of weaponized shame disguising the real, self-serving complaint:

“Young women are stealing the men I feel entitled to and, instead of blaming my own choices, I’m going to blame them.”

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